Building Parent-Teacher Relationships
Creating a partnership with parents takes effort and a dose of consideration. Follow these guidelines to establish an effective relationship.
When meeting with parents face to face, a few simple strategies can improve the outcome of the meeting. Remember that your relationship can and should be one that focused on positive outcomes for the student.
Relationship Builders
The following techniques can help teachers build positive relationships with parents and guardians. Remain calm, friendly, and professional at all times. Maintain eye contact at all times. Be willing to listen and keep an open mind. Make every effort to understand the parent's complaint or concern. Emphasize all positives and academic gains first. Address specific concerns and remain focused on what is best for the student. Share student work that supports your concerns. Offer explicit help and advice. Help parents or guardians set achievable goals for their child. Stand firm on school policies.
Relationship Breakers
The following behaviors can be destructive and easily misinterpreted. Try to avoid them. Never sit behind your desk. Avoid crossing your arms in front of you or placing your hands on your hips. Do not argue or interrupt. Avoid accusations; instead, state honestly what you feel using "I" statements. Do not assume anything about a student’s home life.